For Men

Is This As Good As It Gets?

Are you avoiding intimacy because you fear rejection or poor sexual performance? Is your partner no longer interested in sex or physical intimacy? Is it easier to look at porn than deal with a relationship?

Are you tired of living like this?

Interestingly, erection difficulties and rapid ejaculation have the same root cause. I can teach you simple techniques enabling you to monitor your own arousal patterns, thereby making you a more effortless lover, deciding when and if you will ejaculate. Relaxation is the key. I can guide you to practice total enjoyment of living in a body.

When we focus on a perceived problem such as rapid ejaculation, we get “tunnel vision” and everything else fades from our focus. I will help you regain broad focus of your sexual experience, including your whole body and mind.

JOKE: You don’t pay prostitutes to have sex with you, you pay them to leave when you’re done.

Is this painfully funny? See my page on Eroticism and Intimacy.

Areas in which we may work:
Vulnerability
Fear of intimacy
Erection issues
Rapid ejaculation
Managing fantasy
Dealing with grief
Getting more out of your relationship, sexually and emotionally

"Someone needs to encourage us not to brush aside what we feel, not to be ashamed of the love and grief it arouses in us, not to be afraid of pain. Someone needs to encourage us that this soft spot in us could be awakened and that to do that would change our lives.” –Pema Chodron